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I Always Wanted A 'Gilmore Girls' Relationship With My Mom. I'm Happy It's Not.
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by on March 14, 2025March 14, 2025

I Always Wanted A 'Gilmore Girls' Relationship With My Mom. I'm Happy It's Not.

Warner Bros. Television I’m watching Gilmore Girls for the 100th time. On the screen, fast-talking mom Lorelai manically asks her 16-year-old daughter Rory to join her on an impromptu road trip the night before her wedding. Confused, responsible Rory demands why as Lorelai dodges questions before breaking down and admitting she can’t marry Max. Lorelai’s...

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Stop Talking To My Kid About What's "Healthy"
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by on March 7, 2025March 7, 2025

Stop Talking To My Kid About What's "Healthy"

Natalia Lebedinskaia/Getty Images Even before I had a baby, I heard the horror stories of school lunch judgment. Notes home from teachers to parents telling them not to send certain foods in lunch boxes. Entire schools banning specific lunch items. It left me annoyed and indignant. But I didn’t fully feel the rage of those...

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My Mental Load Is All These Goddamn Toys
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by on February 21, 2025February 21, 2025

My Mental Load Is All These Goddamn Toys

Vera Livchak/Moment/Getty Images Now that we’re finally naming things like default parents and the invisible load, I imagine many of us have stepped back to examine our own relationships and see how much of this stuff is at play. I have been pleased with my findings: My husband truly believes in being an equal partner...

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