gahsoon/E+/Getty Images Building a family can be really exciting, but people sleep on the particular joy that can come along with knowing you’re done building your family. It’s not always an easy decision, but when you know you know, and there’s a freedom in knowing one stage of your life is done and you can...
Category: marriage
Think About This Before Shaming A Mom Looking At Her Phone
TikTok I have a very clear memory of going to the playground with my children. They quickly settled in with some other kids and were off to the races. I decided to park myself on a bench — the one that offered an unobstructed view of just about everything — and took out my phone...
My Mental Load Is All These Goddamn Toys
Vera Livchak/Moment/Getty Images Now that we’re finally naming things like default parents and the invisible load, I imagine many of us have stepped back to examine our own relationships and see how much of this stuff is at play. I have been pleased with my findings: My husband truly believes in being an equal partner...
Your Mother-In-Law Doesn't Hate You… It's Actually Sadder Than That
TikTok If you’re lucky, marrying someone offers you the opportunity to become a loved and loving member of another family. Your sister-in-law might become your go-to late-night text when you don’t know why your baby’s poop looks like that. Or your father-in-law might drop by because he noticed your mailbox looked crooked and he wanted...



