Ariela Basson/Bustle; Stocksy, Midjourney People toss around a lot of questions about sex. What position is best? How do you introduce role play? Is my body supposed to make that noise?! But as someone on the internet who fields a lot of sex content from both writers and readers, I feel fairly confident in saying...
Ariela Basson/Scary Mommy; Midjourney, Getty Images As we get older, our definition of “good sex” definitely changes. When I was in college, I might have thought that good sex was with a really attractive person, or sex after a night of dancing with a stranger, or sex not in the back seat of someone’s crappy...
The worst part about sex being so taboo in our society is that it’s hard to find a ton of accurate information on it — and it’s even more difficult when you’re female. As young women, many of us were left to glean what little sex ed information we could from books, the media, classmates,...
As an elder millennial in my 40s, the nicest thing I’ve ever expected after sex was to be handed a tissue box, a cuddle, maybe a “That was nice!” Often, it was more like a shirt off the floor and an “I have to be up early tomorrow…” The minutes and hours after sex were...